Relationship vows…
Hi, its not about me. But carried away by what’s happening in our society. After few years, why love fades between a couple. The vows we have taken has been forgotten. The couple always loves each other so well that they can not see anyone around them. But after few years , a small misunderstanding can lead to destruction. We take a pledge , we will never walk alone anywhere, our partner will be a shelter. Then why priority changes. ?
People laughs and make fun of wives. But can they put themselves in that plate.? The husband whom i dated has totally changed. The love and affection is now depicted only in my food, care and household activities. I feel bad seeing this. I sat with my few friends over a cup of coffee. Everyone has the same story. Change is the law of nature- i don't deny, but seriously now, the love has just beneath the sheets. I really miss that warmth in my relation. commitment has just completely changed my life.Today,most women complain that men give a deaf ear to their feelings and opinions, whereas a majority of men blame nagging as the major cause of poor communication with their spouse. In the conventional marital set up, either of spouses decides to stay subservient, playing a vital role in the sustenance of marriage. However, today, the couples end up in ego clashes, both of them vying for an equal footing rather than mutually clarifying their concerns. Hectic and complex lifestyles cause anger, frustration and confrontations, which may rock the foundation of the marriage. The people are too busy to actually value and cherish their relation. They fight over petty things, and find divorce to be an easy solution to any misunderstandings, not realizing that no two people can agree on all the things completely. Sometimes i wanna quit but this is not the net solution.
On the contrary, It's always good to appreciate your partner. Most imp, watch your words. We should never raise any words that can either hurt egos or genuine feeling of the partner. Spending time apart is also an important component of a happy healthy relationship. It is healthy to have some separate interests and activities and to come back to the relationship refreshed and ready to share your experiences. Missing your partner helps remind you how important he or she is to you.
Are you willing to go an extra mile for a stronger bond, each passin day...
